November 2, 2021
Hi, there! You’re here because you’ve reached the point in your relationship where you know you’ve found “The One.” Congratulations! These are exciting times, and the butterflies in your stomach feel like they are beating each other up! I get it! You’re about to begin a new chapter that will change the rest of your life (for the better); it’s somewhat nerve-wracking! But it doesn’t have to be if you have a plan, and I’m here to help with that! Here are 10 tips for planning the perfect proposal for your sweetheart!
Know Your Partner
Before we go too deep into the process, you need to be fully aware of who your partner is. Are they a social-butterfly that likes to be the center of attention? (Proposing in a private setting with just the two of you may not meet their desires or secret expectations of a proposal) Or are they more of an introverted type that doesn’t mind staying in for a quiet evening? (Still think that the Jumbo-Tron in Times Square is a good idea?)
Pick a Day Your Partner Will Least Suspect
Choose a day where the focus would most likely NOT be on them. Like your own birthday, for example. They’ll never see that one coming!
Location, Location, Location…
Without being too obvious, it would be a good idea to choose a location that has some sentimental value to you both. The place where you first met or went on your first date, or even the spot where you realized you fell in love.
Also, consider the time of the day as it may be a popular area with a lot of foot traffic. Which, in some cases, would be undesirable.
Oh, and one more thing… Please don’t propose at someone else’s special event. It is in poor taste.
Practice in the Mirror
Listen, I’m not saying that you have to have a whole speech prepared. But it would be nice to have some idea of what you’d like to say, and how you’d like to say it. Your nerves will most likely be at the forefront, but having an idea will ease some of that tension. You’ve Got This!
Don’t Make This Weird[Hopefully], You are about to propose to someone who knows you like that back of their hand. With that said, when you start behaving like something is up, “they’re gonna know.” Don’t make this weird.
Don’t Tell Everyone
It’s cool to have someone you trust know about what you’re planning to do. Your pal may be of some assistance with orchestrating the plan and help make things run more smoothly. However, please make sure they keep the intel air-tight! There’s nothing worse than a well-thought-out surprise ruined by someone who can’t hold water. Not only that, your loved one will want to share the news with friends and family. Can you imagine how things fizzle after the person they’re sharing the information with says, “Yeah, I knew that was going to happen; I just couldn’t say anything.” #Awkward.
Friends and Family
Should you decide to include friends and family on this occasion, might I suggest planning an activity afterward? Like a dinner! People like to eat, drink and be merry! It’s a Celebration!
Planning the Perfect Proposal
We all know that there is no such thing as “perfect.” And that’s okay! Though it is wise to have a plan, rest assured that there is a good chance of things not going according to plan.
Hire A Photographer
You’ll most likely be in a state of shock as this whole ordeal is happening, so how can you be expected to retell the story of your proposal accurately? Trust me; you will not regret it! Hire a Photographer (Ahem, Me)! What better way to recall one of the best memories of your life than to look at some beautiful, candid photographs to look back on?
Lastly, now that the hard is over and “YES!” was the response, you’ll probably need a drink. Bring a bottle of bubbly and a couple of glasses and toast to a beautiful new beginning!
Now that you have read my 10 Tips on Planning the Perfect Proposal, May Your Love Journey Continue to be Beautiful!
The next stage of this adventure is to set a date and take engagement photos! And if you’re on the fence about it, read my thoughts on Why You Need Engagement Photos! Or feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions!
If you have any additional tips or ideas, feel free to comment below! Thanks for stopping by!